"When I think
about Belinda and the Coven and how they, I mean we, have been trying to force
you down the road of vengeance, I feel guilty. I really do. I could tell that
you didn’t want to be that kind of person. I could see it all over your face. I
still can. You love Angus and you would have him back at the drop of a hat,
right?’
Finally
invited in, Cassy found herself struck dumb. It was a tough question: the kind
that causes the most elegant of silver tongues, the most accomplished of public
orators, to stutter and mumble. Did she still love Angus? Would she take him
back? If to err was human and to forgive was divine then she would need a
miraculous conversion into a deity. Forgiveness. Easy to say, hard to do. Nice
word. Potent word. Terrifying word.
‘Am I wrong
about that Cassy?’"
Lovesick chapter 37
Revenge is
not a good idea, but people throughout history, when wronged, want to strike
back. Forgiveness and grace are too hard. When you’re hurt you want to lash
out, to pay back. It’s natural, but that doesn’t make it right.
Vengeance is
an ineffective way to right a wrong, and often only leads to escalation which
results in more people getting hurt. Revenge cannot undo what has been done. It
does not heal. It is not justice.
Vigilantes
are often warned by authorities not to take the law into their own hands. The
greatest authority in the universe, the Lord God of Creation, also does not
want people exacting revenge. “Vengeance is mine,” says the Lord, “and
recompense, for the time when their foot shall slip; for the day of their
calamity is at hand, and their doom comes swiftly.” Deuteronomy 32:35. Paul
also admonishes us in Romans 12:19: “Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave
that to the righteous anger of God.”
Have you ever
taken revenge? Have you ever had revenge taken out upon you?
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