“Wittaya used people the way his father had
used tools. He remembered watching the man work and marveling at his artistry,
his concentration. He could be awesomely focused in times of sobriety. Each
tool brought to bear on the blank canvass of a piece of wood for a specific
purpose, a limited time, then discarded and ignored until need once more. The
finished product, a carving of breathtaking beauty for which men paid good
money. Although possessing no such skill as a woodworker, Wittaya considered
himself an artist in his own right. He
had a team of people upon whom he could call, but who were forbidden to trouble
him even if they did possess such temerity. His favours were only ever gifts to
be received according to his whim. The outsider may have seen caprice, but the
superficial randomness masked engineering. Manipulation.”
from chapter 11, Ashmore Grief
Pride is the original sin. According to the
Bible it was pride which led Adam to disobey God’s command in the garden, and
partake of the Forbidden fruit which then saw him and his wife, Eve, cast out of
paradise. It was pride which saw Lucifer exiled from heaven along with a third
of the heavenly host who thought to raise themselves above their creator.
Pride
makes a man declare independence from God and from others. I am enough. I can
do it myself. Have you met a self made person? Have you heard their tales of
triumph over the obstacles the world has thrown in their path? Pride rejects
help even when it is needed. Pride doesn’t acknowledge other contributions to
success. Pride justifies immoral or unethical actions. Pride audaciously
declares, “I am the most important person in the world.” Pride focuses
attention on the self. The ego becomes the master.
In Ashmore Grief, pride drives Wittaya
Keawwanna. He dresses his pride in altruism, but his ambition is fuelled by a
darkness which causes him to function with deliberate ruthlessness. The
Proverbs tell us that pride goes before a fall...what calamity awaits Wittaya?
When has pride caused you to fall from
grace?
Excessively proud people can come across as offensive especially if you know nothing about their talents or achievements. I think it's good to be aware or oneself and have confidence where it is appropriate, but humility and caring should balance it all out.
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking on your question, but my sense of pride concerning a situation of pride causing me to fall from grace does not allow me to recognize or remember.
Lee
A Faraway View
An A to Z Co-host blog
Clever response Arlee. Thanks for visiting and taking the time to comment. Much more could be said about pride, but this is a blog, not a book. Cheers mate. Good to hear from you.
DeleteToo much pride is a dangerous thing - and it can also be an annoying thing. I hate having to listen to someone go on and on forever about all of their accomplishments and how great they are. :( I don't usually call these overly prideful people out, but I often wish I could.
ReplyDeleteI try to combat my own pride by being thankful for and mindful of the people in my life. Volunteering also helps to put things in perspective. :)
Awareness of the danger of pride is an important first step. It is half the battle won, in fact. Good on you for fighting the good fight.
DeleteLike with anything, moderation is key. Being proud of an accomplishment is a good thing. We must allow ourselves to feel pride in that which we do. But it can (and often is) taken to an extreme, where pride is put before all else.
ReplyDeleteLiz A. from Laws of Gravity
So true Liz. Balance and moderation is the key, but most humans suck at avoiding extremes. Pride is not itself bad, it can be a good thing. I tried to use the word pridefulness to suggest the darker side of pride. Do you think that was successful?
DeleteVisiting from A/Z; You are so right about pride being the original sin. I think we have pride in a job well done, but if we take all the glory from it without giving all credit to God, then we have committed the sin of pride. I'm thankful when I find myself prideful, God reminds me of it and I try to ask for forgiveness of it. Good post!
ReplyDeletebetty
Good to hear from you Betty. Thanks for taking the time to visit and comment. I'll pop over and visit you. Thanks again.
DeleteDestroyer of human relationships. Possibly more than even selfishness.
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