W is for Wittaya
"Looking back, it was clear that his father had used him. If he needed somewhere to sleep he would plead on Wittaya’s behalf, tapping into the sympathy generated by the sight of a helpless baby, or a young child. The women especially were horrified at the idea that Wittaya’s father should be dragging him all over the city from place to place. They would keep him and try to persuade his father that Wittaya was better off with them, but he always refused. There were even women who offered themselves to him, and volunteered to care for both Wittaya and his father. These acts of kindness were politely refused. His father also used him to stay out of jail.
No doubt he loved Wittaya in his own way, but in later years, as Wittaya grew up alone in various orphanages and foster homes, he realized his father had not really known how to love him any differently. If nothing else, at least he had delivered him safely to Australia. He died three months after they arrived from tuberculosis."
From chapter 4, Ashmore Grief
Some people, like Senator Wittaya Keawwanna, rise from the ashes of disadvantage and tragedy, and succeed. They trample obstacles as they strive to reach their goals. Rather than view their misfortune as an excuse for failure or a reason not to attempt anything, they use it as inspiration. And these people inspire us. We love ‘rags to riches’ stories, we delight in tales of lives afflicted with suffering in which the sufferers overcome, we marvel at people who rise above their circumstances.
What about those who don’t? What about those who are trapped in miserable cycles of depression, violence, addiction and self destruction? What’s the difference? Is it the person? Other people in their lives? Other external circumstances? Why do some people do well in life and others don’t? If life seems harsh and unjust, it’s because sometimes it is. Sometimes, I just want to go home to Heaven.
Life is definitely unfair.ReplyDelete
Too bad more rich people don't help the people who need their help the most.
And governments should help the poor before themselves and the rich.
At least there is a better place coming for us.
Hi Cheryle. Great to hear from you. Thanks for taking the time to comment.ReplyDelete
Some people's lessons are harder than others. Some people's lessons end up being too hard for them while others use them to thrive.ReplyDelete
Liz A. from Laws of Gravity
As someone once said, 'Why is it so?'ReplyDelete
I totally agree with what Cheryle and Liz said!!
Sometimes the world does seem to be so unfair, when some people are constantly slapped down with bad luck. misfortune, and sadness. But it is the glimmering thought of hope (seen especially in stories such as the rags to riches one above) that keep us going even through our darkest hours. It is hope that helps us to hang on when our world crashes down around us - when I have the choice between hope and despair, I always try to turn toward hope. Maybe it doesn't make a difference in the situation, but it makes a difference in how I view it. :)ReplyDelete